Marriage
should be Simple or Lavish
Happy
wedding ceremonies bring joy and happiness not only to the bride and groom but
to the whole family. This is the beginning of a new life for the new couple, so
it is a source of joy for the parents that they are fulfilling their important
responsibility. Of course, finding good and appropriate relationships on time
is a matter of luck. It is the wish of all parents that as soon as their
daughter completes her education or in the last stages of education, if there
is a suitable relationship, they should turn her hands yellow soon. In the case
of sons, it is expected to be employed after completion of education. But as
soon as it becomes financially stable. Parents are also anxious to see the
credit on his head. In general, marriage matters here are not so simple and
easy. After much effort and investigation, the marriage is finalized.
Especially in traditional families, where there is no tradition of marriage
outside the family. Finding a marital relationship is also a spoil. Many
matters are settled with regard to Haq-e-Mahr, transactions and customs, then
the way is paved by going somewhere and accepting three times, accepting,
accepting. Anyway, all this is usually done between the parents and the elders.
Those who are getting married do not need intervention and are not allowed to
do so. But! Things have changed a lot in a changing world, with children now
choosing to travel on their own in many places. And wise parents do not hinder
children and their happiness. Instead of trying to recover, they wallow in
their sadness and thus, experience more failure. Thus the preparations for
marriage begin with the mutual consent of the two families. It starts with
exchanging rings with each other. Then the next step is to choose the date and
place, then the modern renovation of the marriage hall and stage, starter and
food dishes, number of guests, printing of invitations, distribution, groom,
bridal attire and other accessories. Matters such as shopping do not diminish
the busyness of the family. Marriage is a religious, social and moral duty,
which is much better if it is performed with dignity and simplicity. Allah's
Holy Prophet (PBUH) has blessed low cost marriage. In Islam, it consists of
marriage, dowry and wilayah.
At the same time, little girls are allowed to
express their happiness by singing light-hearted songs and playing the
tambourine. No, even if the passion to keep pace with the times is on the rise,
the purpose is to shake the throat, henna and mother's rituals look good. Never
give up. Which are the foundation of our civilization and society. Take special
care of them. The bride has to look her best during this time, because of
posterity more than anything else. For some time now, the practice of making
pictures and movies of the bride and groom has become commonplace, which is by
no means appropriate. Of course, there is no abomination in expressing
happiness in the realm of civilization and morality, but God! Don't make the
wedding a movie shoot. Let her stay married. Also, it is a very inappropriate
act to perform immoral acts just to celebrate, to decorate parties for dancing
and rejoicing, which is tantamount to angering Allah Almighty.
